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Certain songs represent my "Happy Place" for me. When I hear them I am automatically transported there 😁
@David Calderon Any particular songs?
Whenever I had them, my gardens were my happy place. Now, home in my apartment is my happy place. That, and the imaginary land in whatever fantasy book I am currently reading.
Hey, yo.
I like places where all I can hear is the wind in the trees. One of the best places for this is Walker Pass (south end of the Sierra Nevada) where the trees are Joshua trees.

I am also quite fond of the mouth of the Klamath river.
I have no happy place. Some happy moments in time, sure. I do have some favorite places which resonate in my mind...
As @Joyce Donahue mentions, books are my happy place. In the real world, at the gaming table with friends is my favorite place. For the record, board games, not gambling. I am irked that people conflate the two.
Oddly, I tend to dislike games. I'm much too serious, I guess.

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Wait! Diaspora is my Happy Place!

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@Muse Here is a sampling 😁

(I Just) Died In Your Arms ~ Cutting Crew

@Muse
Music can do it! If you let it.
Poker table 😀
Good morning, my couch 🛋️ when reading a book and listening to music.

"Stuck in the Middle"


This might resonate with both @David Calderon and @((( David "Kahomono" Frier )))
Physical places are hard for me to be happy about, they always change on me. I used to have places to sit and rest my mind and feel momentarily in the moment and not overwhelmed by painful change but they are all gone, both in nature and among people. All my old 'haunts' are nearly gone now, time having taken them or urban development or the passing of the people associated with them.

I used to be more RL social than I am now... my online acquaintances now are a means to find some common connection with someone besides my wife and my few surviving distant rl friends and family. Covide did a number on everything in my life even though I managed to never get it, along with my own physical limitations and the horrible political landscape and how its affecting the city I chose as home.
Yeah, no real happy place....it was once this house, this place, but the neighborhood, society, government has gone to hell.
🙁 🙁 🙁
some refuge in reading these days, but few and far between...
Anything with water (river, ocean, beach, lake) and/or books.
Happy place is in movement, I think. Sure the garden I had around the house as a kid was huuuge and the lake and all, but.. they meant exploring the hidden corners, bushes, old walls, crumbling bricks. It never got boring until maybe I was 16 years old and other activites were more promising. 😀

So a garden, yeah, but a German proverb says resting is rusting. So happy place implies moving about the space, which can be as big as a city, as playground for #. Or it might be a fun walk watching doggo interacting, exploring and getting wet in instantaneous friendships.

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I was just thinking about movement @Carsten Raddatz. My happy place is walking … on the beach on Raro and hearing the waves crash in the reef; on the ridge on Aitutaki and through the parks and walkways at home.
I like hiking in the woods and doodling outside at cafes while drinking espresso drinks. I hold office hours every Thursday from 10 pm on, which is one of the few places I can find to discuss my favorite topics in a collegial environment.
My happy place is without physical location, but rather a combination of factors that becomes the happy place of the moment.
Often fleeting, but fairly easy to reclaim even for a short time.
I am in constant awe of the world around me, having lived a 'charmed life' that has not turned the world against me.
But to be a little more specific,a sunny day in a field, a music concert, a mountain top, dinner with friends, snuggling with a loved one.
Anything with water
I've noticed over the years that people seem to be either water people or mountain and desert people. I'm a child of the mountains. I've seen the Atlantic and the Pacific and the Gulf of Mexico, and I've seen Lake Superior and Lake Michigan. Each time, I was unimpressed. I looked for a few seconds and wandered off to do something else. I can happily spend all day tramping around the mountains or the dry hills of a desert, though.
@Lisa Stranger Fred is using our Thermocell repeller when using his telescope. He said it works super well.
I spent Saturday in my Happy Place which was with two of my 5 sisters. (and 2 nieces) Drove up to the family home in OC and had a lovely day. Also had one of the worst Vietnamese coffees ever on the way home. At least it did the trick of keeping me alert during the late evening drive.
Usually the garden for me. Looking forward to the boat in near future after a few years without getting on the lake. Like to get out in the middle, cut the engine, and just float southward. Free-floating minus the anxiety.
i've not understood the concept of 'happy'
i've managed to survive thus far.
Thermocell repeller
I'm unfamiliar with that one. "Off" used to make one that worked really well. The first version had louvers that closed to preserve the repellent solution for the next use. The second "improved" version ditched the louvers, thereby making each (very expensive) repellent pad single-use (for up to 12 hrs, who uses one for that long?). Now it seems they have stopped making them altogether.
when I was a kid there was near my home an overpass with a short stone wall beyond the sidewalk as barrier against falling to the busy highway below. I liked to go there and write poetry, watching the mesmerizing traffic and imagining marvelous places they could all be going.

In the story I am presently writing, the central character has a happy place several times mentioned, a theater stage where she liked to dance, rehearsing choreography or just trancing out
happy place songs:




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLMrenP_nFc
@Cass beaches are good too! Also if there's a (mild) storm on, add that to walking on sand that is quite demanding, a real workout.
Other Happy Places:
Torrey Pines Beach, San Diego Zoo/Balboa Park, my own back yard.
@Carsten Raddatz - Why is your map in Chinese?
是啊,为什么?
@Karl Auerbach I was going to say 我不知道,別問我!不是故意的~ Dont ask me, I don't kn...

Then again, I screenshotted a map of Taipei with markings of where I walked, and which came up in Chinese for me, so you get to benefit from that too.